Saturday, 7 January 2017


Having motivated many young couple all over the world, we, the Marriage Management Matters (3M), have discovered that many couples are experiencing some amount of troubles, worries and challenges within their first five years in marriage. Many are not living up to the expectations of God and the devil has hijacked them. We need to begin a serious work to help more marriages not to go into such situation, with God’s guidance and prayers.

We begin by asking this question. What kind of film do you watch in your Ipads, Iphones, and laptops? What kind of friends do you relate with on a daily basis? Who are your mentors and what kind of write-ups do you read? Mind you, these have a way of affecting people positively or negatively.

 It is important to note that demonic infected marriages always have items that link the couples back to sin and sorrow, and will be eating into the fabric of the love a good family should have. Please, kindly reflect on 1Timoty 4:12 which says: “Let no one despise your youth but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in purity.”

Today, the crew of 3M is telling all young couple to always remember that the youths look up to them and they do not have any reason to breach God’s plan in their marriages. They have to ensure that they are living perfect examples that other believers can emulate and bring God’s plan for marriage into fruition.

In word, remember that when you speak, your credibility is at stake. So, do not be in a haste to speak. Seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit. In conduct, Romans 12:1-2 says: “Do not copy the behavior and customs of this world but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then, you will learn a new God’s will for you, which is good, pleasing and perfect.”

In love, a good example to learn from is Luke 6:35-36: “Love your enemies, do good, and lend, hoping for nothing in return and your reward will be great and you will be the sons of the Most High for he is kind to the unthankful and evil. Therefore, be merciful just as your father also is merciful.”

In spirit, you need a regular check. Note that as you read the scriptures and pray, God shines the spotlight on your hidden agenda and helps you correct them. In faith, you must remain in the TRUTH. Keep in mind that you are not called to be testers of experience but testers of the truth.

In purity, young couples should be ready to compare all thought, ideas, and plans to the test of scriptural truth to avoid acting on wrong advice and direction from your family and friends. Remember, the path of the just is like the shining light that shineth more and more unto the perfect day.

This is a publication of Marriage Management Matters (3M)
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