Tuesday, 25 October 2016


You are welcome to today’s edition of Marriage Management Matters on Tectono Business Review. As we approach the end of this series, we hope that fellow believers in the word of redemption are carefully following in the study and observation of our ways of life to know if it is in accordance with the teaching of the master of marriage. Therefore, we encourage ourselves with sense of seriousness to pray and seek His help ever than before. It is also important to share this with us that through our marriage, we can achieve salvation and have eternal life.

In the last edition, we tried to let the wives, women and mothers see the reason why they should not think about putting asunder in their marriages. Today, we want the fathers, daddies and men to know that the Lord has given them the grace to be strong in whatever that happens in their relationships with their partners, if they understand His laws, teachings and plans for their union.

The book of Prophet Malachi 2:14-16 says: “You ask, “Why does he not?” Because the Lord was witness to the covenant between you and the wife of your youth, to whom you have been faithless, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant. Has not the one God made and sustained for us the spirit of life? And what does he desire? Godly offspring. So, take heed to yourself, and let none be faithless to the wife of his youth. For I hate divorce, says the Lord the God of Israel, and covering one’s garment with violent, says the Lord of hosts. So, take heed to yourselves and do not be faithless.”

If there is any marriage that is being troubled at the moment, we urge the husband, today, to kindly take an honest inventory of treacherousness in their union such as violation of confidence bestowed to them by spouse, betrayal of trust and love, and being unreliable to your marital vocation. With genuine examination of conscience, it will begin the needed healing in your home.

Remember in the bible verse above, the Lord reminded us that this fusion is a covenant, and our father in heaven, who is your companion. He made you to be one indivisible, unshakable and united family bearing Godly children that will know him, love him and serve him, singing the glory, adoration of the Lord God to all nations. Above all, He mentioned in verse 16 that He hates divorce. So, whatever you are thinking, have it at the back of your mind that putting asunder your marriage is not possible. Rather, seek His help and intervention.

Hebrew 13:14 says: “Marriage is honourable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers, God will judge.” So, while you continue to pray for reconciliation, remember 1 Peter 3:7 which says: “Husbands likewise dwell with them with understanding, giving honour to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being joint heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.”

We pray with you that your effort for peaceful reconciliation of your union with your spouse will not be hindered in Jesus name, Amen.

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